So it has been a week since I wrote my last post. What a roller coaster it has been. Our first offer was rejected. I don't like being rejected. I thought that once I got married that would all be over, but no, the housing market can be so cruel!
So we sat on that rejection for a couple of days, looked at some houses, prayed, and talked a lot about what we could do instead. We kept coming back to that house. That house. That perfect, huge, great, wonderful house. And it's not just that it's a great house; it would be OUR home. The McCoy family home. What a great thing to have for our children, instead of the thought that we will move every one or two years. I want stability for them, and a house is a great way to do that. Living in California, we thought we would never be able to own a home. Then the market fell apart. I am so glad we never tried to buy before. God had a purpose in our waiting - even though it was hard, it was a great lesson in patience and trust in Him. So what did we do? We upped our offer by $20,000!!!! Yes, that's a lot of money, but we did completely low-ball on the first offer. So we made a new offer on Wednesday night and found out today that the seller will have a minor counter - hopefully no biggie - and by Monday it should be going off to the bank for approval. Oh yeah, I don't know if I ever mentioned this house is a short-sale. If anyone has ever tried to buy a short sale you know the patience required. Just because a seller accepts an offer, it doesn't really mean anything. Their lender has to accept it as well and agree to all terms. So hopefully Wells Fargo will see the offer, realize it's a good one, and will accept it.
Thanks to Marcus serving in the Navy for 2 years, we get to utilize a great benefit - the VA loan. That is the only loan right now that will give 100% financing, which is WONDERFUL! Only bummer is that with the longevity of a short sale, the VA also adds 45 day escrow (15 days longer than "normal"). But all in God's time is what I say and lean on! If this is His will it will happen; all I have to do is complete the action steps required! It is comforting to know that I have no control over this situation!!!!! Prayer would still be great though! I will keep you posted!